Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

to get with s/b

English answer:

to be friendly with s/b

Added to glossary by Tony M
Aug 8, 2011 07:36
12 yrs ago
English term

(to) get with smb.

English Art/Literary Idioms / Maxims / Sayings Song lyrics (please explain with usage examples, if possible)
Spice Girls (Wannabe)

... If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Change log

Aug 8, 2011 07:51: Tony M changed "Field (specific)" from "Music" to "Idioms / Maxims / Sayings"

Aug 8, 2011 07:51: Tony M changed "Field (write-in)" from "Please explain with usage examples, if possible" to "Song lyrics (please explain with usage examples, if possible)"

Aug 9, 2011 09:46: Tony M changed "Edited KOG entry" from "<a href="/profile/1354304">Giordano B (X)'s</a> old entry - "(to) get with smb."" to ""to be friendly with""

Discussion

Charles Davis Aug 8, 2011:
get with I don't think the Spice Girls meant to say that their prospective lover was required to have sex with their friends (though you never know), but that is often the sense of "get with". Eric Partridge et al. define "get with" as "to have sex with (UK, 1987)" (The Concise New Partridge Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English, p. 286, http://books.google.es/books?id=cCVnlIUTpg4C&pg=PA286&lpg=PA... ). There are also several entries in the Urban Dictionary which define the expression in terms of sexual relations (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=get with ). It is also used with an impersonal object to mean "get acquainted with", with a suggestion of "getting with it" ("wising up"), as in "get with the program" (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=get with the ... ).
Thayenga Aug 8, 2011:
More samples to get my friends to like you, hang out with my friends, make my friends accept you, become friends with my friends, get along well with my friends, ... that's all I can think of right now. :)

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English term (edited): to get with smb.
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to be friendly with

Very close to the perhaps more common expression 'to get on/along (well) with sb' — 'to be on friendly terms with'

I suspect the loss of 'on' is just a typical example of the current tendency to shorten everything, although it may well have also suited the lyric writer to lose an extra syllable which might have upset the scansion...

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Note added at 20 minutes (2011-08-08 07:56:36 GMT)
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Note also other expressions like 'to get with it' (rather dated now!) and 'to get with the groove' (ditto!) — but always with the idea of 'being in sympathy' with something.

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Note added at 37 minutes (2011-08-08 08:14:31 GMT)
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Of course 'to get with' could also have a much more sexual connotation (along the lines of 'to get it on with'), but given the context, I hardly think that would be the intended meaning here.
Peer comment(s):

agree Jenni Lukac (X) : I've never seen the expression before, but this is how I understand it.
4 mins
Thanks, Jenni!
agree AllegroTrans : Yes TM, but both you and I are, I fear, a little on the wrong side of 55 for this kind of thing ;-)// OK then, 54!!
6 mins
Thanks, C! Cheeky, I'm still teetering on the brink of 55, if you don't mind!
agree Jack Doughty : Also "get knotted", but maybe we'd better forget about that one...
6 mins
Thanks, Jack! Yes, I think that might have a quite different connotation... ;-)
agree Liz Dexter (was Broomfield)
14 mins
Thanks, Liz!
agree Lindsay Spratt
34 mins
Thanks, Lindsay!
agree Sheila Wilson : The Asker requests usage samples - I don't think there are too many, but I agree with your take on it
1 hr
Thanks, Sheila! I feel sure this is the sort of thing that can readily be found with a quick Internet search, though there's likely to be quite a lot of 'noise' :-(
agree Thayenga
2 hrs
Thanks, Thayenga! Yes, 'get along with' is good too.
agree Charles Davis : To my shame and regret I have never managed to expunge the Spice Girls from my memory banks. The lyrics were hilariously recited in Shakespearean style by Peter O'Toole on TV years ago.
3 hrs
Thanks, Charles! :-) I'm relieved to say they washed over me completely like a tide of ... I daren't say what ;-)
agree Lirka
7 hrs
Danke, Lirka!
agree Thuy-PTT (X)
4 days
Thanks, Thuy-PTT!
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Thank you, Tony"
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5 hrs

get along with

Another option.
Note from asker:
Thank you
Peer comment(s):

agree Lirka
2 hrs
Thank you, Lirka. :)
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